Contemplations of the moment:

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Who is more submissive: the one who, when asked to take charge, says "yes, of course," or the one who, when asked the same, says "no, I can't"?

That question aside...if I can't even take care of the one I love, I'm not sure I deserve to be around anyone at all.

Comments

[cathrinetta.livejournal.com]

I'd be tempted to say that the first person is but I think that it depends on the persons perspective and aproach to why they're doing it. Attiitude is really important in that.