Contemplations of the moment:

[letterblade]

Who is more submissive: the one who, when asked to take charge, says "yes, of course," or the one who, when asked the same, says "no, I can't"?

That question aside...if I can't even take care of the one I love, I'm not sure I deserve to be around anyone at all.

Comments

[datta.livejournal.com]

I think the former. And *hugs*.

[telepwen.livejournal.com]

You deserve the world. Don't let anyone, including yourself, say any different.

[(Anonymous)]

Hah. And there is the proof! I knew you weren't a sub, and you're so sexy as a dom.

please note change in tone.


And my darling....you can, you have, if you want to you will, if you don't you'll choose not to and that will be a brave thing. You're perfect.

-Backdraft

[original-fifi.livejournal.com]

The one who says yes and fails

[paper-crystals.livejournal.com]

Please define "take care" if you want to talk my # is 413-585-7710. You can find my e-mail on livejournal. Why do you want to be as submissive as possible? It's not a competition.
Much Love,
C

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

That wasn't why I asked the question at all. I was curious what other people thought, because it was a question that interested me intellectually.

And, er, wasn't referring to you.

[paper-crystals.livejournal.com]

Okay. We not worried any more. We mindfucked...but not worried...

[cathrinetta.livejournal.com]

I'd be tempted to say that the first person is but I think that it depends on the persons perspective and aproach to why they're doing it. Attiitude is really important in that.

[paper-crystals.livejournal.com]

I was more worried about phrase #2 then phrase #1 actually.