All that I said in that last post about not being particularly angry?

[letterblade]

That was before the last round of emails.

NOW I AM MOTHERFUCKING PISSED.

She throws me out of my own apartment, she cuts me off financially, she smears me as an abuser to all my friends; she uses me up, throws me away when I'm no longer good enough, and destroys my life. Fine, I can deal with that. I can handle that gracefully. Whatev, man. I'm chill. I had the patience to date her for two years in the first place, after all.

But now she's locked me away from my own possessions because she's "not comfortable" with the idea of my entering the basement where they're stored. Not even the apartment, just the basement. The fucking basement, which is covered in spiders, where she'd never go in a million years. She even made me carry all the stuff we were storing down there in the first place, she hates it so much. And you know what's the last fucking straw?

That whining, childish, qlipothic manic-depressive bitch has LOCKED ME AWAY FROM MY BOOKS.

LIBRARIAN RAGE.

Anyone got a van I could borrow? I need to get my crap out of there before she decides that her oh-so-precious "comfort" levels require her to burn it all. (Well, everything she can't use, I'm sure. No doubt she'll keep all my furniture.) Oh, I am no longer "comfortable" with this bullshit. Not. At. All. God, I cannot believe I ever planned to marry that basket case. She's even driven me to using font tags in my own livejournal. Outrage!

P.S. remind me never to date sensitive lesbians again. Girls and their fucking comfort levels. Comfort THAT, bitch.

Comments

[mattador.livejournal.com]

I have nothing articulate to say, but I share your outrage.

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

My booooooooooooooooks! *flails* My precious boxes of useless crap! But my boooooooooooooooooks!

[juliansinger.livejournal.com]

Sadly, I don't. (I have /access/ to a station wagon (though it's not mine so I'd have to involve scheduling), if nothing else works out, and would be perfectly happy to come be a semi-neutral party.)

I admire the usage of words I do not know. *looks them up* And so descriptive!

Hang in there. You're doing amazing stuff here, seriously.

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

I believe I can arrange a station wagon, but I may be contacting you if I can't. (Or we may be talking about the same station wagon.)

Thank you, so much. *hugs*

[callunav.livejournal.com]

Oh, for gods' sake...

You know, I'm torn between sheer bloodthirsty rage on your behalf and blinking admiration for your vocabulary when ranting.

I got nothing to help with, not even the little red wagon I got years ago for moving house (and, later, groceries, and sometimes friends). Just a whole lot of JESUS FUCKING CHRIST YOU PSYCHOTIC BITCH GET OVER YOUR DELUSIONAL SELF NOW fury for you and your books and your precious Stuff. Stuff is important, dammit.

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

*points to icon* And thank you. Lots.

(The irony dance of the day is that I learned that word from her.)

[eustaciavye.livejournal.com]

This is ridiculous.

If I am not mistaken, the correct procedure for this is to go to her house with a police escort and remove your things. Even if she had a total restraining order against you, that would be allowed.

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

Yes. Time to call the cops.

[cosmicbiscuit.livejournal.com]

I'm voting cops as well. This is fucking insanity.

[theloriest.livejournal.com]

In my experience, just bringing UP the subject of getting cops involved was enough to slap sense into a crazy former roommate.

[mattador.livejournal.com]

I concur.

[mllelaurel.livejournal.com]

No van, sadly, and the car I can get ahold of is no bigger than yours. Smaller, in fact. Though it does have a roof rack.

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

<-- icon, lots

[akycha.livejournal.com]

I do not have a van, but I do have a station wagon, which I am happy to place at your disposal. HC is also willing to put her hatchback at your disposal. We can carry boxes.

I have passed through a white-hot moment of rage and am being quite calm on the other side of it.

Books are very important. One's possessions are very important. Preventing you from having access to them is not simply an act of theft, it is deliberately provoking, nasty, and entitled.

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

I will probably actually be taking you up on that at some point, if such is feasible. (Main problem being, the best time by far would be a weekday, and I don't know your schedule, the car's schedule, or any other sundries.)

And thank you. A lot.

May I email you about this?

[mentalhygiene.livejournal.com]

Jeebus gibbering numpwibbets, what a cunty -- I'm not even sure I have words for that. I'm inclined to agree with the earlier comment -- it's YOUR stuff, and she has NO right to keep you from it or it from you. It's YOUR property.

I have no van, but I would readily offer my back & backpack & bicycle.

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

Unfortunately, I think the sheer amount of my crap would break those items. :/ But thank you!

Also, I've been hanging out a lot in Salem recently. We should totally get together or something.

[paper-crystals.livejournal.com]

Generally, when one is not comfortable around another person one designates a mutual and trusted friend to let said ex-girlfriend in when one is out of the house. Keeping things which are not yours and not allowing the owner to get at them is generally considered stealing. This is generally considered in common society immoral and against the law.

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

We've discussed that possibility--it apparently offends her sensibilities if I'm on the premises, ever, regardless of who's there or not there.

*seethes*

[lucky-otter.livejournal.com]

I take it you don't care about the furniture? 'cause if you want it - even if only to sell in on Craigslist - might as well plan to get it at the same time.

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

I actually do--in one case, lots, as there's an antique bureau there which is part of my family's inheritance. And in some other cases, yeah, Craigslist. I'm planning to sell (or chuck, if not sellable) probably almost half of the total crap I'm getting out of there. Yay extra monies.

On the other hand, immediate concerns about stuff being destroyed or permanently retained have died down. She is still being utterly, completely, and highly inconveniently irrational, and it is entirely her fault that what would be a relatively simple move is made complicated to the point of wasting hours of everyone's time, effort, and sanity. But, eh, it's not like I didn't know she was fucking nuts.

[nihilrien.livejournal.com]

I can offer a station wagon, but only if you can wait until June. I do agree with those who have suggested police involvement, though.

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

June is sadly not an option, but thank you.

I am keeping the police option as emergency reserve. Given how much our social circles and thus event attendance overlap, it would be nice to come out of this without a restraining order.

[pandagenma.livejournal.com]

Cynthia did all that? Crazy! I'm so sorry, hon. *huggles*

"God, I cannot believe I ever planned to marry that basket case."
I've unfortunately had to say that about someone before as well. Bleh. :(

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

Yeah. Though in one instance of fairness to her, she was and probably still is off all her meds, so it's kinda understandable that she's excitable and hormonal. *huggles* One might still hope for some rationality though.

Note to self: do not plan to marry people who you know are unstable.

[genepolice.livejournal.com]

I know you don't know me from Adam, but damn...other than her being female...this sounds almost chapter and verse what HC went through with her psycho-ex.

[heavenscalyx.livejournal.com]

Psycho exes have limited imaginations as to how to fuck with people who are escaping their control. All the stories end up sounding the same after a while. At least my Evil Ex couldn't throw me out of the house -- I was making all the money -- and didn't try to lock me away from my stuff -- after all, I paid for him and his boy-toy to have an evening in a nice motel while y'all moved me.

[herongale]

Oh, Wired. ;__;

What a fucking mess.

Next time, I think you should date Scar.

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

Or a nice Thelemite boy. :D Or somebody without, y'know, crazy girl cooties.

(Not that you have crazy girl cooties. Just all the girls I've dated.)

*hugs* And thank you. Good to see you around! :)

[heavenscalyx.livejournal.com]

Oh, please. You an abuser? Bullshit. And whoever has believed her is so full of shit. They Are Backing The Wrong Horse.

As Akycha said earlier, our cars and backs and arms are at your disposal. I have done this kind of moving for other people (and, well, yes, myself) before, and I'm very good at it.

And if you need some storage space until you get into an apartment, let's talk.

[heavenscalyx.livejournal.com]

P.S. remind me never to date sensitive lesbians again.

Sensitive lesbians can be nice. Abusive personalities lurking under the facade of a sensitive lesbian? I'll remind you not to date them again.

[mytheria.livejournal.com]

*hugs*
If you have somewhere to put your stuff, I'm willing to get a Zipcar (element, pickup, or the like) and help you move stuff. Also let me ask 1 person i know who has a truck.

[mytheria.livejournal.com]

p.s. find me at somepoint and we can talk how to deal with ex's who do social poisioning. And I agree if needed getting a police escort is not a bad idea.

[greenmouse.livejournal.com]

Wow.

a.) That bitch.

b.) I had to google "qlipothic". I'm impressed.

c.) I've dated a schizophrenic who went on and off her meds all the time. Turned me off women as relationship fodder forever. You have intense sympathies from my quarter.

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

a.) Adorably nutty people can be so fun...until they get nutty at you. :/

b.) Thank you! Though the irony dance of the day is that she taught me that word.

c.) Aiiii! My sympathies. Not sure I'm off women entirely, but definitely no more Sensitive Lesbians. Current dating strategy: Nice Thelemite Boys.

[witticaster.livejournal.com]

Books are life. And I know I don't know you particularly well, or really at all outside of our LARPing sphere, but in response to these past few posts...

*hug*

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

They are. And hugs back. Much hugs.

[contradictacat.livejournal.com]

Goddamn. Knew she was crazy and not a little bit unstable, but...wow. I think you win the award for Douchebaggiest Ex Ever. ::hugs muchly::

::volunteers Zipcar::

[wired-lizard.livejournal.com]

Oh, I'm sure there's worse out there, but this is getting pretty absurd, yeah. *hugs*

And thanks for the volunteering. I think I'm all set on transportation, but backup is good. :D